Met a lovely specimen Saturday who recently booted her spouse of twenty years. Instead of eagerly anticipating a new sex toy attached to a less complacent man, she seemed frightened. Where would she meet men? At bars? Should she join a dating site? Get another dog?
As a wily veteran who was once in her stilettos (figuratively … except than one Halloween I purged from my memory), I offered a few tips.
“You need to learn phrases you’re going to hear from men penetrating you, and their true meaning.”
“Indeed. Also, you’ll need to memorize a few phrases you’ll need to deploy.”
“Say, for instance, you meet a handsome fellow who causes a tingle in your taco. You decide, against better judgement, to bang him on date uno. If the sex is pedestrian, thank him and call Uber. If it was spectacular, you probably would like to do it again, so you need to soothe his slut-shaming mind.”
“Simple. Say, ‘Oh my god, I don’t know what came over me. I never do this. There’s something about you. I’m so embarrassed.’ Then pull the sheets up to your chin.”
“Like a charm.”
I’ve heard that feigned-innocence line enough times to have developed a few responses of my own. If the sex was awful, I smile, pat her on the head, fetch a towel, retrieve her chonies, and show her to the door. If it was noteworthy, my response would be one of the following:
- I know. We must have some ridiculous chemistry going on.
- Me neither. Jesus. I’m so sorry. Fuck! You’re so sexy, I can’t help myself.
- Hey, just think about all the idle chatter we avoided. This is something special we have here.
- My heart is racing. God, I needed that. Been so long since I’ve had that feeling. Why are you so cute?
- The minute I met you I could tell there was a flow between us. Now, I know it’s real. I hope you still respect me in the morning.
Those of you like me who have volleyed numerous post-coital lines may have felt a little verklempt when reading the above. Well, my love-cynical freaks, we must consider the little people. Those who are new to chasing three beers and two tequila shots with one vagina or penis can find great solace in the above. One heart unbroken makes it all worthwhile.